I knew the NY Surrogacy Center had an organized process, but I did not expect things to move as quickly as they did. After finishing the pre-screening, I suddenly had a potential match and a meeting scheduled—all in the same month. Cue the nerves. Let’s be clear, I was terrified. Yes, I was excited. Very excited. But I also had a full list of fears running through my mind: awkward silences, uncomfortable questions and the worst was being judged and then rejected. But then… the actual meeting happened. And it was the complete opposite of everything I feared.
First of all, Joe facilitated the entire conversation, which instantly took the pressure off. I didn’t have to fill awkward gaps or overthink what to say next—because there were no awkward gaps. No uncomfortable questions. No judgment. Just a genuine, comfortable conversation. I had already seen the IPs’ profile, but meeting them—really meeting them—was something different. They were so much more than a one-page PDF. They were warm, kind, loving, and honestly one of the most genuine and resilient couples I’ve ever met. Hearing their story and their dreams for their family made me feel even more certain that I wanted to help them as their surrogate. The call went by fast—too fast. I wanted to know more about their life and give them space to know more about mine. I wanted them to feel completely comfortable choosing me, especially because I instantly felt comfortable choosing them. When the call ended, my brain was basically yelling, PICK ME!!! And then—before I even logged off—an email popped up from Joe…They chose me. I didn’t hesitate for a second. I emailed back YES instantly.
I can’t explain the wave of joy and relief that hit me. All of my fears… all the “what ifs”… they were just noise in my head. These incredible humans chose me. And I felt so happy, excited, and truly honored to be chosen to be part of their beautiful journey. I immediately called everyone important to me and told them the fantastic news, I couldn’t wait!! I feel blessed, supported, and genuinely grateful that this experience is with NYSC.
